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A brain injury can hap­pen to any­one at any­time. The dam­age can be long lasting…broken bones, cracked skulls, lives torn apart! Often it was from some­thing that could have been pre­vented. Our goal is to stop the damage!

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Apr
20

National Drug Take Back Day

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On April 28th, a national event which empha­sizes the impor­tance of prop­erly dis­pos­ing of unused & expired over the counter & pre­scrip­tion drugs will take place. An emerg­ing trend is that of teenagers attain­ing their drugs my rum­mag­ing through their grand­par­ents’ med­i­cine clos­ets. This leads to harm­ful mix of alco­hol with high doses or pre­scrip­tion drugs, which may lead to alco­hol poi­son­ing, mul­ti­ple injuries, or even a fatal­ity. The DEA has part­nered with NCADD and local Police Depart­ments in order to pro­mote the impor­tance of safely dis­card­ing all unwanted drugs.

At the age of 16, most teenagers feel as if they’re invin­ci­ble and it’s a dif­fi­cult to relay the con­cept that tak­ing drugs which were not specif­i­cally pre­scribed for them, or tak­ing a higher dose of an over the counter med­ica­tion, can be fatal, espe­cially if paired with dri­ving.  Teens know that drink­ing and dri­ving is dan­ger­ous, but do they know much about drugged dri­ving??????  I don’t think so…..  Check this web­site for more infor­ma­tion about the dan­gers of tak­ing drugs and dri­ving  http://www.stopdruggeddriving.org/.

Another extreme but unfor­tu­nate effect of tak­ing these drugs is an addic­tion. For exam­ple, pain med­ica­tions are very eas­ily to get a hold of; more unfor­tu­nate is that it is even eas­ier to become addicted to them.

Through this national event, teenagers around the coun­try can be saved from pos­si­ble harm­ful alter­ca­tions in the future. Another empha­sis of this event is to express con­cern for our envi­ron­ment. A home owner’s imme­di­ate thought is to flush expired med­ica­tion down the toi­let, which not only con­t­a­m­i­nates the water, but also leads to mul­ti­ple prob­lems with ani­mals resid­ing in the sea. This is a great cause which has shown exten­sive results in the past. Please take the time to dis­pose of your unused and/or expired med­ica­tions at a med­ica­tion drop-off loca­tion near you. Please visit http://www.deadiversion.usdoj.gov/drug_disposal/takeback/index.html for more infor­ma­tion and a drop-off loca­tion near you!

If you were stand­ing in line at the super­mar­ket, and the per­son in front of you didn’t notice the line moved for­ward, you prob­a­bly wouldn’t give him the fin­ger and start yelling obscen­i­ties. You might say some­thing like, “Excuse me.” Most full-grown adults have been taught how to han­dle prob­lems with­out swear­ing and spit­ting. So if we don’t han­dle super­mar­ket drama with four-letter words and threats of death, why do we han­dle road drama this way?

Whether we’ve been the one receiv­ing it, or the one dish­ing it out, we’ve all expe­ri­enced road rage. There’s no argu­ing that car horns are impor­tant. They alert other dri­vers of dan­ger: “Stop! You’re back­ing up into my car!” “Care­ful, you’re com­ing into my lane!” Horns can stop some very bad acci­dents before they hap­pen. Unfor­tu­nately, they’re used just as often to express our annoy­ance. “You just cut me off, you idiot!” “Green means go, mis­ter!” Is it nec­es­sary, in these sit­u­a­tions, to lean on the car horn for 3, 5, 10 sec­onds? Is there a ben­e­fit to curs­ing your fel­low Turn­piker and then insult­ing his mother? Bad man­ners only esca­late anger, and often result in retal­i­a­tion and more aggression.

It’s pretty clear why road drama turns good peo­ple into mean­ies. 1. Roads are dan­ger­ous, so the con­se­quences of mak­ing a mis­take are seri­ous and make peo­ple upset. 2. Unlike on a super­mar­ket line, you and the guy you’re yelling at are sep­a­rated by glass, metal, and asphalt. Why not take out all your frus­tra­tions from work, school, home, and rela­tion­ships on this dri­ver in front of you? The anonymity pro­vided by a car makes it easy to behave in ways you nor­mally wouldn’t, when face-to-face.

Next time you’re ready to call some­one a name you wouldn’t want your grand­mother to hear, try and real­ize that it’s not really you talk­ing, but an engrained cul­ture of bad road­side man­ner. Then real­ize that you’re bet­ter than that.

Dec
28

Red light Cameras…Live Footage

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There has been an ongo­ing debate about whether red light cam­eras improve safety on the roads or are sim­ply in place to bring money to municipalities.

A com­pany who places red light cam­eras through­out the county, has just released footage on You Tube from crashes and near misses of cars going through inter­sec­tions which have cam­eras.  Whether you agree with the use of these cam­eras or not–the footage is fascinating…and scary to watch.  See below and tell us what you think.

http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2011/12/nj_intersection_crashes_are_po.html

Nov
28

The Never-ending Driver’s Ed

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It was late as I was dri­ving home from work, and there were few cars left on the road. I was about to merge onto a main road and had a yield sign, so like a respon­si­ble dri­ver, I glanced behind me make sure I was clear. Well, after my work­day I was a lit­tle drained, which made me a lit­tle lazy, and my “glance” may have turned into more of a “stare.” When I turned back around I was head­ing straight for the back of another car, which had come to a com­plete stop at the yield sign.

I remem­ber when I was a lit­tle kid in the back seat, watch­ing my dad drive. He looked absolutely crazy as he whipped his head around and snapped it back in a frac­tion of a sec­ond. He’d throw his head back and forth three or four times in a row to merge onto a road, and looked like a pigeon doing it. Now I’m see­ing how this tech­nique may have served a pur­pose. Un-cool as it is, I’m going to have to try the pigeon method rather than the star­ing method next time, so I won’t have to slam on the brakes and feel that panic of almost hit­ting another car.

Appar­ently my driver’s edu­ca­tion isn’t quite over. At 23 years old, I still have to go back and study how Old Dad taught me how to merge, par­al­lel park, and drive on icy roads. Though I’ll never tell him this.

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This is your oppor­tu­nity to get involved in your school and com­mu­nity to make a dif­fer­ence.  We are seek­ing high school stu­dents through­out New Jer­sey to develop teen dri­ving safety pro­grams and com­pete against oth­ers schools for a grand prize…a dri­ving sim­u­la­tor for your school.  Par­tic­i­pat­ing schools will each receive a $1,000 stipend to help imple­ment the project and have the oppor­tu­nity to win cool prizes…while maybe sav­ing somebody’s life!

Appli­ca­tion dead­line is Novem­ber 30th—don’t miss out!

> Check out the appli­ca­tion at www.UGotBrains.com <

Last year, 19 high school com­peted against each other and devel­oped amaz­ing projects about dri­ving issues that affect teens. Dri­ving Sim­u­la­tors were awarded to two high schools-Holmdel High School (Mon­mouth County) and Lenape Regional High School Dis­trict (Burling­ton County), but all schools walked away with prizes.

> Check out last year’s projects at www.UGotBrains.com <

Nov
08

What never should have happened

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I’m mak­ing my New Years res­o­lu­tion early this year. Recent events have hit me over the head and yelled, “Real­ity check!” I need to be a safer dri­ver. Of course, I always try to be safe, but the moment I hear that beau­ti­ful sound of a new text mes­sage, or my boyfriend’s specially-chosen ring­tone, my efforts go out the exhaust pipe. I tell myself, I just have to glance at my phone for a split sec­ond, and I promise I won’t text back. Okay, I’m just gonna text back “On my way”— it’s such a short sen­tence I’ll barely have to take my eyes off the road. And before I know it, I’m drift­ing into the next lane. Does this sound famil­iar? As pre­vi­ous posts have made me real­ize, no text is so impor­tant that it’s worth a bloody, fatal car crash.

Last week I wit­nessed the last hours of a boy, Mike, who was just 16 years old. He was killed on a dark, quiet road when the car he was in hit a tree. Mike was one of four peo­ple who were squeezed into the back seat, so he wasn’t belted in. It’s such an inno­cent deci­sion; when you squeeze an extra friend in the back, you feel so tight and snug that it seems noth­ing could make you budge. (I’ve been that unbelted back­seat per­son.) It hap­pens all the time, but most of these sto­ries don’t end in tragedy.

When the car crashed, Mike prob­a­bly flew for­ward and hit the mid­dle con­sole, rup­tur­ing inter­nal organs. I was one of the EMTs in the ambu­lance with him, along with another EMT, a para­medic, and Mike’s father. Mike’s con­fused cries for help will haunt me for­ever, and I can’t begin to imag­ine how they will affect his dad. With IV flu­ids, the hospital’s trauma team, and the sound of his dad’s voice, Mike clung on to life for hours. But in the end, it was another untimely death result­ing from a car accident.

Although this isn’t a story about tex­ting, it made me real­ize how frag­ile life is, and how quickly a car can take it away. A sim­ple deci­sion like squeez­ing six peo­ple into a car with five seat­belts, or tex­ting “be there in 10,” can become the deci­sion that ends my life or some­one else’s. If Mike’s unfair death made me see any­thing, it’s that nobody should have to miss their 17th birth­day. I hope this teen tragedy will help more peo­ple will think twice before mak­ing a bad deci­sion behind the wheel.

> Arti­cle about the acci­dent: www.safetysign.com

Aug
22

New Jersey Mourns 4 Teenagers

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A beau­ti­ful Sat­ur­day in August turned tragic for teens in Atlantic County who had just fin­ished play­ing a foot­ball game for their high school team. Details of the fatal crash are still not known, how­ever what we do know is that the fam­i­lies, friends and com­mu­nity will never be the same. See link for more infor­ma­tion http://usat.ly/rg2qI4.

As par­ents and teenagers we often think that some­thing like this will not hap­pen to us or our friends, but this is yet another reminder that life can change in an instant. Traf­fic crashes are the lead­ing cause of death and dis­abil­ity for teens. Par­ents, learn tips to keep your teen safe at www.NJteenDriving.com. Teens-see what other kids have to say at www.UGotBrains.com.

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Jul
01

Happy Fourth of July!!

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More peo­ple trav­el­ing and more par­ties to attend means more risk for mak­ing unsafe deci­sions. Don’t let your teens become a sta­tis­tic over the holiday!

In 2009, more than 3,000 youth died as a result of a motor vehi­cle crash and 350,000 were injured.
(Source: NHTSA)

Par­ents, what are your teens doing for the Fourth of July?
Be sure to:

  • Edu­cate your teens about the safety of using seat belts
  • Re-enforce GDL Laws
  • Mon­i­tor your teens behav­ior and ask questions
  • Encour­age your teens to have a voice when they feel they are in unsafe situations

Know the Grad­u­ated dri­ver lices­ning laws (GDL’s):
Know the laws and rein­force them with your teens that fol­low­ing the laws could save their lives.

Seat belt facts:
Check out sta­tis­tics and information.

Parent-teen Con­tracts:
Develop a pos­i­tive rela­tion­ship with your teen by talk­ing about the dri­vnig rules and hav­ing them com­mit by sign­ing a con­tract. The con­tracts will give you the oppor­tu­nity set the stan­dards and your teens will under­stand that dri­ving is a priv­i­lege that should be earned.

Orig­i­nally appeared on Under Your Influ­ence.


If you’re a sopho­more or older, it’s likely that you’ll have taken a Driver’s Ed class by now. Safe dri­ving videos, guest speak­ers, booklets—they’re all sup­posed to help edu­cate you on the dan­gers of reck­less dri­ving. But, how many of you have sim­ply stud­ied, taken the tests, passed, and then for­got­ten the major­ity of what you learned because so lit­tle of it was new?

We all know to wear our seat­belts, stick to the dri­ving limit, etc… because adults have told us to do so time and time again. But what if it were your peers, your very friends, who reached out to you with these warnings?

If you’re on this site, it’s likely that you know about the recent U Got Brains Cham­pion Schools com­pe­ti­tion. Attend­ing the show­case that announced the win­ners, it was dif­fi­cult not to real­ize that these stu­dents who car­ried out these projects have grown to truly believe in their messages.

A cou­ple of the coolest parts:

  • Short films! In one film, the local police helped out, get­ting sur­pris­ingly into pulling peo­ple over and chas­ing teenagers in cars with sirens. (All act­ing, no wor­ries). In another film, stun­ning drama– like scenes uti­lized spe­cial effects, tal­ented actors-to-be, and… coffins? (Appar­ently they had a cof­fin lying around, some­how) to present a scar­ily true message.
  • Fairs and assem­blies! Ask­ing the help of the fire depart­ment, police depart­ment, local insur­ance com­pa­nies, and more, one school set up a fair for the entire school to take a part in, while another school held an assem­bly with spe­cial guest speakers.
  • T-shirts and wrist­bands! Walk­ing around the show­case, you could have gath­ered sev­eral hand­fuls of wrist­bands, sil­i­cone rings, pins, stick­ers, key­chains, and more. Handed out at dif­fer­ent schools, they pro­vided a way to ensure that the stu­dents remem­bered the lessons taught about safe driving—in a form they were guar­an­teed to take notice of. Who doesn’t like free stuff?

Amaz­ing, isn’t it, what these teenagers came up with and car­ried out? And fun­nily enough, it’s a lot more con­vinc­ing when your friend tells you that you’ll be shoot­ing around the car with a force of 10,000 pounds if you get in a crash with­out your seat­belt on than if your teacher tells you that it’s against the law. So… if you care about your­self and your friends, try to help reach out to them your­selves, because you can actu­ally help to save lives. As one school’s team said to their friends,

“I would never let a friend like you go.”

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But, Are you experienced?How many times have you heard that before? The con­cept of your first time at the wheel is some­thing so dan­ger­ous, so fright­en­ing, so nerve-wracking—that it’s beloved. How many teens don’t love the adren­a­line rush of tak­ing risks or the sat­is­fac­tion in show­ing off to friends extreme uncon­cern and non­cha­lance in the face of dan­ger? Besides, every­one drives—surely you alone can’t be all that ter­ri­ble at it.

The prob­lem is, every­one drives—but not every­one survives.

Equa­tion time!

Desire to show off in front of friends + adren­a­line rush + desire to over­come obsta­cles + desire to be seen as “cool” = forced non­cha­lance.
Forced non­cha­lance + trust in mod­ern safety tech­nol­ogy  + knowl­edge that every­one dri­ves = some­what uneasy trust in your own dri­ving capa­bil­i­ties.
That some­what uneasy trust in your dri­ving capa­bil­i­ties + a few suc­cess­ful rides = overconfidence.

And then, of course:

Over­con­fi­dence + under expe­ri­ence = K.O.

Well, per­haps you won’t actu­ally die the first time you take your eyes of the road or click out a quick text. Per­haps you won’t even crash. Maybe not the first time, or the sec­ond time, or the third time… But then, you fall into the trap so many can’t see early enough nor stop them­selves from falling into: over­con­fi­dence. If you’ve done it a few times, it really can’t be that risky, no?

It is. The more relaxed you get into bad habits, the more your chances of crashing—and pos­si­ble fatalities—increase. Stay smart. Don’t drive stupid.