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Mind Your Manners: Resisting Road Rage
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If you were standing in line at the supermarket, and the person in front of you didn’t notice the line moved forward, you probably wouldn’t give him the finger and start yelling obscenities. You might say something like, “Excuse me.” Most full-grown adults have been taught how to handle problems without swearing and spitting. So if we don’t handle supermarket drama with four-letter words and threats of death, why do we handle road drama this way?
Whether we’ve been the one receiving it, or the one dishing it out, we’ve all experienced road rage. There’s no arguing that car horns are important. They alert other drivers of danger: “Stop! You’re backing up into my car!” “Careful, you’re coming into my lane!” Horns can stop some very bad accidents before they happen. Unfortunately, they’re used just as often to express our annoyance. “You just cut me off, you idiot!” “Green means go, mister!” Is it necessary, in these situations, to lean on the car horn for 3, 5, 10 seconds? Is there a benefit to cursing your fellow Turnpiker and then insulting his mother? Bad manners only escalate anger, and often result in retaliation and more aggression.
It’s pretty clear why road drama turns good people into meanies. 1. Roads are dangerous, so the consequences of making a mistake are serious and make people upset. 2. Unlike on a supermarket line, you and the guy you’re yelling at are separated by glass, metal, and asphalt. Why not take out all your frustrations from work, school, home, and relationships on this driver in front of you? The anonymity provided by a car makes it easy to behave in ways you normally wouldn’t, when face-to-face.
Next time you’re ready to call someone a name you wouldn’t want your grandmother to hear, try and realize that it’s not really you talking, but an engrained culture of bad roadside manner. Then realize that you’re better than that.
New Year Brings Bad News For NJ Roads
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After years of improving crash statistics, 2011 saw an increase in the number of people killed on New Jersey’s roadways. According to State Police, seatbelt usage and distracted driving are two factors which contribute to crashes and fatalities on our roadways. Pedestrian fatalities continue to be an issue in New Jersey. Certain areas across the state have higher rates for fatalities. Read more and check out how safe your community is. Click here
Red light Cameras…Live Footage
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There has been an ongoing debate about whether red light cameras improve safety on the roads or are simply in place to bring money to municipalities.
A company who places red light cameras throughout the county, has just released footage on You Tube from crashes and near misses of cars going through intersections which have cameras. Whether you agree with the use of these cameras or not–the footage is fascinating…and scary to watch. See below and tell us what you think.
http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2011/12/nj_intersection_crashes_are_po.html
Calling All High School Students!!!!!!!
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This is your opportunity to get involved in your school and community to make a difference. We are seeking high school students throughout New Jersey to develop teen driving safety programs and compete against others schools for a grand prize…a driving simulator for your school. Participating schools will each receive a $1,000 stipend to help implement the project and have the opportunity to win cool prizes…while maybe saving somebody’s life!
Application deadline is November 30th—don’t miss out!
> Check out the application at www.UGotBrains.com <
Last year, 19 high school competed against each other and developed amazing projects about driving issues that affect teens. Driving Simulators were awarded to two high schools-Holmdel High School (Monmouth County) and Lenape Regional High School District (Burlington County), but all schools walked away with prizes.
What never should have happened
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I’m making my New Years resolution early this year. Recent events have hit me over the head and yelled, “Reality check!” I need to be a safer driver. Of course, I always try to be safe, but the moment I hear that beautiful sound of a new text message, or my boyfriend’s specially-chosen ringtone, my efforts go out the exhaust pipe. I tell myself, I just have to glance at my phone for a split second, and I promise I won’t text back. Okay, I’m just gonna text back “On my way”— it’s such a short sentence I’ll barely have to take my eyes off the road. And before I know it, I’m drifting into the next lane. Does this sound familiar? As previous posts have made me realize, no text is so important that it’s worth a bloody, fatal car crash.
Last week I witnessed the last hours of a boy, Mike, who was just 16 years old. He was killed on a dark, quiet road when the car he was in hit a tree. Mike was one of four people who were squeezed into the back seat, so he wasn’t belted in. It’s such an innocent decision; when you squeeze an extra friend in the back, you feel so tight and snug that it seems nothing could make you budge. (I’ve been that unbelted backseat person.) It happens all the time, but most of these stories don’t end in tragedy.
When the car crashed, Mike probably flew forward and hit the middle console, rupturing internal organs. I was one of the EMTs in the ambulance with him, along with another EMT, a paramedic, and Mike’s father. Mike’s confused cries for help will haunt me forever, and I can’t begin to imagine how they will affect his dad. With IV fluids, the hospital’s trauma team, and the sound of his dad’s voice, Mike clung on to life for hours. But in the end, it was another untimely death resulting from a car accident.
Although this isn’t a story about texting, it made me realize how fragile life is, and how quickly a car can take it away. A simple decision like squeezing six people into a car with five seatbelts, or texting “be there in 10,” can become the decision that ends my life or someone else’s. If Mike’s unfair death made me see anything, it’s that nobody should have to miss their 17th birthday. I hope this teen tragedy will help more people will think twice before making a bad decision behind the wheel.
> Article about the accident: www.safetysign.com
New Jersey Mourns 4 Teenagers
Posted by: | CommentsA beautiful Saturday in August turned tragic for teens in Atlantic County who had just finished playing a football game for their high school team. Details of the fatal crash are still not known, however what we do know is that the families, friends and community will never be the same. See link for more information http://usat.ly/rg2qI4.
As parents and teenagers we often think that something like this will not happen to us or our friends, but this is yet another reminder that life can change in an instant. Traffic crashes are the leading cause of death and disability for teens. Parents, learn tips to keep your teen safe at www.NJteenDriving.com. Teens-see what other kids have to say at www.UGotBrains.com.