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Archive for August, 2010

reposted from arti­cle on NJ.com

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Christo­pher Erd walked to school in Cresskill as a boy. Kerry Useche did as well, in New Prov­i­dence.
Yet both Branch­burg par­ents are adamant their own chil­dren won’t do the same now their school dis­trict has cut so-called “cour­tesy” busing.

Christo­pher Erd’s two chil­dren Wes­ley, 9, left, and Jen­nie, 7, don’t have a school bus to ride to their ele­men­tary school in Branch­burg. The fam­ily falls within the two mile limit for the town’s cour­tesy bus­ing, but the part of the route the chil­dren must take has no side­walks and is very nar­row and curvy.

It’s sim­ply too dan­ger­ous, they say. Useche’s third-grader would have to cross Route 202 with­out the aid of a cross­ing guard — the town won’t add one. Erd’s 7– and 9-year-old would have to walk down a nar­row coun­try road with no shoulders.

Across the state, dozens of dis­tricts are scram­bling to tackle safety and money issues raised when they cut cour­tesy bus­ing after last spring’s abrupt drop in state aid.

In some dis­tricts, bus­ing was sim­ply elim­i­nated for ele­men­tary and mid­dle stu­dents who live within two miles of school and high-school stu­dents who live within 2.5 miles. (Those who live far­ther away must be bused.) In other dis­tricts, par­ents within that radius can buy a seat at prices rang­ing from $200 to $750 a year.

If this con­jures up notions of chil­dren hap­pily walk­ing to school, think again: Offi­cials expect most of the kids who lost free bus­ing will be chauf­feured by par­ents or car­pools. That has them wor­ried about traf­fic at school: Fully half of stu­dents struck by a car near school were hit by a par­ent dri­ving another child, accord­ing to the National High­way Trans­porta­tion and Safety Administration.

PREVIOUS COVERAGE:

• Interim super­in­ten­dents man­age bud­get crises in brief tenures at N.J. schools
• Sixty-one N.J.-funded spe­cial ed offi­cials’ salaries exceed pro­posed $175K cap
• N.J. school dis­tricts avoid cuts in spe­cial edu­ca­tion in bud­get cri­sis
• N.J. Sen­ate approves school dis­tricts wage freeze, use of saved funds to avoid lay­offs
• N.J. Sen­ate approves inter­dis­trict school choice pro­gram
• N.J. Gov. Chris Christie’s bud­get fol­lows five admin­is­tra­tions of increased spend­ing
• N.J. bill would require par­ents to pay for stu­dents to attend sum­mer school
• N.J. offi­cials cut $140M in addi­tional funds from school budgets

Charg­ing par­ents for a ser­vice the entire com­mu­nity used to fund is a sign of the times, says Boon­ton Town­ship Super­in­ten­dent Roseann Humphrey. When her dis­trict pro­posed a sim­i­lar cut in bus­ing about six years ago, every­one — par­ents and retirees alike — objected. “There are no side­walks, there are no street­lights, so it’s really haz­ardous. It’s unwalk­a­ble,” she said.

Yet this year, when the $180,000 bus­ing tab was put on the bal­lot, it lost by two votes.
“It must be the econ­omy,” she said. “Nowa­days, they’re not so gen­er­ous, whereas in the past, they’d say, ‘Let’s share the cost and keep every­one safe.’”

Since cour­tesy bus­ing isn’t manda­tory, it was an obvi­ous place to shave costs. Dis­tricts have opted to make cut­backs in dif­fer­ent ways.

In Sparta, con­sol­i­dat­ing bus routes meant giv­ing the mid­dle and high schools the same start times. Only a fifth of the 800 stu­dents who lost free bus­ing have pur­chased a “sub­scrip­tion” bus seat at a price of about $500, said War­ren Ceurvels, assis­tant super­in­ten­dent for busi­ness. No cross­ing guards will be added, he said, not­ing the town­ship has its own bud­get problems.

I’ve had par­ents say, ‘I’m hold­ing you respon­si­ble for my kid’s safety if any­thing hap­pens to him.’ Well, no. It’s the parent’s respon­si­bil­ity to get the kid to school,” he said. “What’s been a cour­tesy before, the school dis­trict can no longer afford.”

Liv­ingston is charg­ing $750 per stu­dent, but fam­i­lies can select morn­ing– or afternoon-only trips for $375.
Branch­burg par­ents were fac­ing a $500 fee per child until the town­ship com­mit­tee hired five bus dri­vers at a lower salary with no health ben­e­fits. That move reduces the fee to $125 for the first half of the school year, with a fam­ily cap of $200.

For many peo­ple, $500 would be a mon­ster tax increase. Let’s call it what it is,” said Greg Bonin, town­ship admin­is­tra­tor. The inno­v­a­tive arrange­ment gives the school some breath­ing room to rene­go­ti­ate dri­ver salaries and dis­trict health insur­ance costs.

It also gives added urgency to the town’s plan to con­nect major hous­ing devel­op­ments with side­walks. “Right now, Branchburg’s not a walk­a­ble com­mu­nity,” Bonin said.

At West Mor­ris Regional High School Dis­trict, only 10 per­cent of stu­dents have signed up for $610 bus seats. That may mean traf­fic lines at school. “We’re not sure what’s going to hap­pen, said Anthony DiBat­tista, super­in­ten­dent. “It’s uncharted territory.”

Neigh­bor­ing Mount Olive is offer­ing $200 cour­tesy bus­ing, with slightly more than half of the impacted fam­i­lies opt­ing to pay, said Super­in­ten­dent Lar­rie Reynolds.

At  Boon­ton Township’s ele­men­tary school, chil­dren who ride the bus will be dis­missed first, while the kids who were dri­ven will wait in their class­rooms. That gives time for the buses to depart to make way for all the cars. All stu­dents will have to get in and out of cars on the pas­sen­ger side only for safety’s sake.

Despite all the cut­backs, edu­ca­tors expect few chil­dren will end up walk­ing to school.

Stony Brook Road in Branch­burg is a nar­row, wind­ing road and has side­walks only part of the way. Christo­pher Erd’s two chil­dren Wes­ley, age 9, and Jen­nie, age 7, will have to walk this road to the ele­men­tary school because they no longer qual­ify for cour­tesy busing.

All those foggy mem­o­ries — and jokes — about par­ents who walked three miles in the snow to get to school con­tain a grain of truth: In 1969, 42 per­cent of chil­dren walked or biked to school, accord­ing to the Cen­ters for Dis­ease Con­trol and Pre­ven­tion. By 2001, that had dropped to 16 percent.

Those who walked to school know it offers chil­dren a rare slice of unsu­per­vised free­dom. As chron­i­cled by Tom Sawyer and Huck Finn to “The Karate Kid,” it can bring adven­ture, romance, or per­haps a bully.

There’s so much fun on the way to school, ” said Lenore Ske­nazy, author of “Free-Range Kids: How to Raise Safe, Self-Reliant Chil­dren (With­out Going Nuts with Worry.)” “There are sights, sounds and smells.” You could find an acorn, teach your­self to whis­tle, meet a friend. “It’s not the back of the car, for God’s sake.”

Yet even she votes thumbs-down to walk­ing where the route sim­ply isn’t safe.

These are sub­urbs that were built with­out a thought of any human being trav­el­ing in any­thing besides a car,” she said.
Newer devel­op­ments were con­structed with­out side­walks — whether to save money, or to adhere to a faux-rural aes­thetic. In addi­tion, newer schools are often built on the out­skirts of town, instead of a cen­tral loca­tion, mak­ing walk­ing even more problematic.

In many cases, sub­scrip­tion bus­ing fees come atop other new fees — the “pay-to-play” charges for every­thing from the foot­ball team to the march­ing band to the spring musi­cal. Schools can’t allow par­ents to pay bus fees in install­ments, either; they bid bus­ing con­tracts and need the money upfront.

Fam­i­lies with incomes low enough to qual­ify for reduced or free school lunches can­not be charged for sub­scrip­tion bus­ing where it is offered.

That doesn’t solve the prob­lem for every­body, though.

Kerry Useche’s hus­band lost his con­tract job as a mail car­rier, and is being rede­ployed to Afghanistan as a mem­ber of the Air Force in Jan­u­ary. Money is tight. Her third-grader’s 1.79-mile route to school would include incom­plete side­walks, a road used as a short­cut by Penn­syl­va­nia com­muters, and Route 202.

Yet when she com­plained that the town­ship wasn’t pro­vid­ing a safe pas­sage to school, as they were obliged to by law, she said the answer was, “Yeah, we are. Pay for it.”

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Aug
25

My Story About Teen Driving

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Hello my name is Donna Weeks, thank you for let­ting me share my story with you today and hope­fully this infor­ma­tion will help you and your fam­ily and friends.

On Decem­ber 21, 2006 I lost my incred­i­ble daugh­ter, Kyleigh Lau­ren D’Alessio, who was killed in a hor­ri­ble pre­ventable car acci­dent. The newly 17 year old dri­ver also died in the acci­dent. He just received his Grad­u­ate Dri­vers Licenses and had mul­ti­ple pas­sen­gers in the car. I didn’t know much at that time about the Grad­u­ate Dri­vers License/Provisional Dri­vers License because Kyleigh was only 16 years old and was my old­est child.

After the acci­dent I looked up the GDL and other web­sites for teen dri­vers. With the infor­ma­tion I was find­ing I thought. “Why isn’t this cru­cial infor­ma­tion given to par­ents about the laws of the GDL?” When their teen receives their per­mit and pro­vi­sional license.

After Kyleigh’s acci­dent, there were fatal car acci­dents every week for the next 5 weeks. We lost 11 teens at that time all GDL dri­vers with mul­ti­ple pas­sen­gers. I thought, “Why aren’t these cars marked?” “Why isn’t infor­ma­tion given to par­ents about the Grad­u­ated Driver’s License Laws (GDL)?” With the infor­ma­tion I found on teen dri­vers I could no longer do noth­ing. We are los­ing to many pre­cious lives because of cru­cial infor­ma­tion not pro­vide and the GDL not enforceable.

Teen Dri­ving Awareness

• The #1 Killer of teens – car crashes — nationwide

• The num­ber of teens that are killed in car acci­dents should no longer be accepted.

• The biggest threat to teens is parked just out­side your home.

• Pre­ventable car acci­dents caused by teen dri­vers are the lead­ing cause of death for teens in Amer­ica today.

The Tragic Facts

• Nearly 5,000 teenagers die in car crashes every year.

• Another 300,000 plus are injured in car crashes each year.

• Our chil­dren are irre­place­able and if we could share some extremely impor­tant infor­ma­tion for par­ents and teens to help them make bet­ter choices, believe me its worth every second

Aware­ness — Think Smart

• Mak­ing Teens More Aware of the Dan­gers of Teen Driving

• You have the power to pro­tect you and your friend’s lives.

• If you were aware that one deci­sion that you made while dri­ving could increase the like­li­hood that you could get into a crash, wouldn’t you make the choice to pre­vent it? Be aware! Save your life and the peo­ple you love.

• These sta­tis­tics should be unac­cept­able to you as teenagers because most of these acci­dents are preventable:

  • Tex­ting on a cell phone will raise your chances by 88%.
  • Talk­ing on a cell phone will raise your chances by 79%.
  • Being tired will raise your chances by 59%.
  • Dri­ving in bad weather will raise your chances by 55%.
  • Hav­ing just ONE FRIEND in the car will raise your chances by 50% — with 3 or more the risk is nearly 4 times greater.

Research has shown that the first 6 months of a newly GDL/provisional dri­ver is the most dan­ger­ous, and being a pas­sen­ger is also dan­ger­ous, and some­times fatal.

I am sure that most par­ents are unaware of the fact that research shows that 3 out of 4 teens state that their par­ents have the biggest influ­ence on their driving.

Know­ing the laws (and sta­tis­tic) in your state for newly teen dri­vers is empow­er­ing. As a par­ent that was not pro­vided with this nec­es­sary infor­ma­tion, at the most crit­i­cal time of my daughter’s life, I feel is extremely impor­tant for pro­vid­ing par­ents with the under­stand­ing and knowl­edge of many sta­tis­tics of the dan­gers of teen driving.

A sim­ple ques­tion like, “can I ride to school with Johnny this morn­ing”, Johnny being the 17 year old neigh­bor who has just received his GDL/Provisional license last week. With­out the par­ents receiv­ing the infor­ma­tion this sim­ple ques­tion has turned into a life threat­en­ing one and could pos­si­bly be the last deci­sion this par­ent may make for their child.

It is time we start to make a dif­fer­ence, know­ing now after so much recent research that a high per­cent­age of these acci­dents are preventable.

I hope this gen­er­a­tion of teen dri­vers as they are edu­cated and are more aware of the dan­ger­ous against them – is the gen­er­a­tion that will accept these changes for them­selves and their friends and start the turn­ing point of sta­tis­tics against them.

I know what it feels like to loss an incred­i­ble child and I don’t want another fam­ily to have to live though the pain that my fam­ily and friends will for the rest of our lives.

Kyleigh’s incred­i­ble spirit and energy for life and love for life is what gave us strength. If I only had to use one word to describe her, the word would be JOY just pure JOY. We miss every­thing about her.

Web­sites I found that were informational:

  • ProtectTeenDrivers.com
  • UGotBrains.com
  • TeensDriversSource.com
  • NationalSafetyCouncil.org
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Do I really need to wear a seat­belt in the backseat?????

Sim­ply put, the answer is yes.  Yes because it is the law in New Jer­sey and yes because it can save your life.  Accord­ing to Pam Fis­cher, Direc­tor of New Jer­sey Divi­sion of High­way Traf­fic Safety, “Peo­ple some­times say using seat belts should not be manda­tory, but a mat­ter of indi­vid­ual choice, but this isn’t about that,” said Fis­cher. “This is about safety. The risk to your life is three times greater if you don’t wear a belt, and the costs for deaths, injuries and acci­dents come back to all of us in the form of higher insur­ance rates.”  Read more about this at NJBackseatBullets.com

Think it can’t hap­pen to you???

Two recent deaths which may have been pre­vented with the use of a seat­belt.  Be safe.  Be smart. Buckle up.  It’s the law and it could save your life.

Fatal crash-both occu­pants unbelted:   http://www.pressofatlanticcity.com/news/breaking/article_c9615a3a-9d94-11df-b809-001cc4c03286.html

Another fatal crash: unbelted back­seat pas­sen­ger + inex­pe­ri­ence: http://www.pressofatlanticcity.com/news/breaking/article_29831142-9cd2-11df-8968-001cc4c03286.html

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Seniors and Dri­ving:  Are They Safe?

There is often a lot of talk about the safety of seniors behind the wheel.  Some have argued that seniors make up the most dan­ger­ous age group of dri­vers.  Oth­ers stated that instead of man­dat­ing teens to dis­play decals, the senior dri­vers should be iden­ti­fied on the road­ways.  How­ever, accord­ing to recent stud­ies, seniors may be the SAFEST dri­vers on the roads.

Researchers say a dri­ver 70 or older is three times less likely to be killed in a crash than those 35 to 54.  Read more about senior dri­vers at

Older dri­vers safer: http://www.northjersey.com/news/state/99709069_Judge_drivers_by_ability__not_age.html

Aug
03

Quick Tips To Keep Your Teen Safe

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Quick Tips To Keep Your Teen Safe

As par­ents, one of the scari­est mile­stones we face is when our child starts to drive.  Some of us may have read the daunt­ing sta­tis­tics about teen car crash rates.  Some of us may pre­fer to ignore the risks a new dri­ver faces on the road­ways.  But wher­ever you fall within that spec­trum, you want your child to be safe.  Below are some tips to help keep your teen safe:

Learn more at :  http://www.njteendriving.com/quick-tips